I am in agreement with Steven and Bryan.
I am at the point where I'm paying less attention to what the correct exposure should be, and more about how it looks to my eye. I liked her statement that "the exposure triangle isn't the be all/end all" authority. Sometimes you have to put your own juice into it. That's not to say that you go out to make purposely crappy images, but not every photo HAS to be perfectly exposed. I should mention that I'm referring to my own personal photos as opposed to somebody that gets payed to shoot something. You damn well better have it correctly exposed if the bride and groom are paying you. I think the "proper" exposure should be a starting point for the end result. You can goose it up or down as you wish.
With regards to the "heartbeat of the moment", I too need to just calm down and think about what I'm seeing before snapping away like a crazy man. I tend to react to something I see and then try to capture it. I suppose that's a valid strategy to keep serendipity in the equation, but it relies more on luck than introspection. Maybe do some meditation before I go out with my camera. Like Bryan, I've asked myself why I took those pictures. What was I thinking?
Steven says: "Most of the time I have NO idea what story I'm telling. I'm not even sure I WANT to tell a story. Besides that, the very idea of telling a story is usually too BIG for me to think about in the moment I'm pressing the shutter button." NAILED IT!!! I understand the concept and theory of storytelling with photography and admire those that can do it. It hasn't clicked for me yet, pun intended. Most of what I see doesn't have a story or even need a story, it's just something interesting I stumbled up on. I greatly appreciate those folks like photojournalists who can tell stories with their photography, but if somebody wants to make up a story about my picture of a tree, then have at it. It's still just a picture of a tree. It may be that if done artfully, my little tree picture can evoke a mood or feeling, but to me that isn't a story. There are folks on here that have posted spectacular photos that really convey a mood or feeling, but I don't get the story they are telling, if any. That's probably my lack of understanding.
This was a worthwhile exercise for me, watching the video (twice) and thinking about it. I appreciate Bryan bringing this to us, and it is indeed food for thought.