Weddings and a No from me

[Photofarmer]

Have a good friend who enjoys my storm photography and other general shots.

Said hey mate you wouldnt like to take some outdoor wedding photos for us would you?

I said nah not that good its your special day well second time actually.

Divorced lost the shirt of his back etc etc no much coin at moment.
He said we cant really afford a proper photographer, doesnt have to be expert quality only 20 people in attendance.

So hes gonna try a few others and get back to me.

Or should i help a mate out and just do best i can.
R6ii 70/200 2.8 L 24/70 2.8 L no flash but maybe not needed as early afternoon, probably got good enough gear to fluke a few good ones but not the experience

 

[Photofarmer]

Any of you guys get asked things like this.
Got asked to do a horse show a while back as practice but thats a bit different i did do that was fun and challenging

 

[MrSparks999]

I think as long as expectations are set before the wedding then no issue. I did one for a friend, and explained before hand i am just a keen amateur not a pro, and they were happy with that, turns out they were happy with the shots i took as well, this was a small wedding.

 

[Photofarmer]

i guess seeing m a guest at the wedding anyway not to hard.
box of beer fine but same time kick in the nuts for pro photographer maybe i respect all pro photographers and those who cant afford em, and guys like me yeah i will help ya ouyt mate dont expect to much

 

[Woodbadger]

Lot less risk nowadays with digital. I did two s-in-l weddings back in early 90s with no meter on film. Hadnt a clue what I had until they came back from the lab!. #goodolddays.

 

[Dean Wilson]

I struggle with landscapes, I can't imagine photographing people...much less a wedding! But that me.

 

[dgphoto8]

Probably ok if he has not other recourse, just as others have said, make sure expectations are managed. And try to avoid a scenario like my sister-in-law’s wedding, where the groom’s uncle (retired engineer turned photographer) volunteered his service as a wedding gift. He took all the formal shots on the altar of the church with a semicircular floral arrangement right behind my sister-in-law’s head, so it looked like the marriage of the Statue of Liberty…

 

[PhotoJim58]

Have a good friend who enjoys my storm photography and other general shots.

Said hey mate you wouldnt like to take some outdoor wedding photos for us would you?

I said nah not that good its your special day well second time actually.

Divorced lost the shirt of his back etc etc no much coin at moment.
He said we cant really afford a proper photographer, doesnt have to be expert quality only 20 people in attendance.

So hes gonna try a few others and get back to me.

Or should i help a mate out and just do best i can.
R6ii 70/200 2.8 L 24/70 2.8 L no flash but maybe not needed as early afternoon, probably got good enough gear to fluke a few good ones but not the experience

Been there, done that against my will. Not for me and never again.

 

[JHG]

Been there, done that against my will. Not for me and never again.

Been there, done that a few times over the years. I have been lucky so far...... But there was once that I was told to be a backup photographer and ended up being the primary. Another couple actually liked my set rather than the paid one after their ceremony which was a bit embarrassing. I am not saying that I am any good in wedding photography, but taking pictures as a guest without any pressure has its advantage. But to be honest, it was an exhausting experience every single time.

 

[Dean Wilson]

but taking pictures as a guest without any pressure has its advantage.

This reminded me of a time I took pictures (not photographs) of a couples wedding, my wife and I are still dear friends with.

Using Microsoft Movie Maker I assembled the pictures in various sequences and added musical soundtracks, various downloaded video clip and made a DVD for them....I even had a blooper/out-takes reel at the end. They loved it and still talk about it.

 

[JHG]

This reminded me of a time I took pictures (not photographs) of a couples wedding, my wife and I are still dear friends with.

Using Microsoft Movie Maker I assembled the pictures in various sequences and added musical soundtracks, various downloaded video clip and made a DVD for them....I even had a blooper/out-takes reel at the end. They loved it and still talk about it.

That's the thing, I did the optimisation, cropping and editing in Lightroom for my each of the photos that I took where as some of the hired pros probably just do a batch conversion (if they actually be bothered). That makes the difference I guess. I don't know how much that these pros are charging these days, but their qualities do vary a lot from what I saw.

 

[dmanthree]

I shot weddings back in the film days. So...no. Never again, even though digital makes it easier in some ways. Just a total PITA shooting weddings.

 

[Kerro]

I have shot 3 or 4 weddings in my time for friends and family. My last one, about 2 years ago, was from my point of view a total disaster. Nothing would go right, focus was off, the light was wrong, you name it. I ended up trashing over half my photos that day. Another one I took maybe 3000 photos and it was fine. The friends loved the photos. Even the Brides Mum and Dad liked them. I always tell them not to expect too much as I am only an amatuer. Luckily I am too old to do weddings now.

 

[Only RF]

Tell him he will get what he pays for. Yes that happened to me. I said no repeatedly and finally caved. I took 6 months to prepare , primarily on how to use the flash correctly. It actually was an interesting experience. It forced me to learn about flash photography. Something I always feared because I didn’t understand it. Sure it took decent images but what happens when I’m shooting an event and things don’t go right.

That is a big part. If something goes wrong you need to dig yourself out of a hole quickly. There is no tomorrow.

I went well and eventually he became my event shooting partner. We did about 20 weddings and then I pulled the plug. To much pressure and not enough money. We were budget wedding photogs and we made that clear to clients. Look at our work. If you want $10,000 wedding shots hire a $10,000 photographer. He was 25 years younger than me but we became friends at work because of photography. He shot Canon too.

What I found. The technical side was OK but the hardest thing I found was posing people. There are the 20-30 money shots which I’d study in a Friday night and forget 75% of them by Saturday morning. Pro photography is like a job. You build a routine and over time with experience it becomes second nature. Shooting a wedding once a month was just not enough, for me anyway.

It’s demanding, especially when you know a lot of people at the event. I’m trying to concentrate on my job and people we have not seen for a while wanted to chat. The break driving from ceremony to a shooting location was such a nice break. 10-15 minutes but that little break was like heaven.

What did I learn? I gained a whole new respect for working pros. I have to admit I felt a little bad knowing I was taking work from them. We did it to earn a little side money for photo gear but it still was not worth it. We got $750 each for the job but add a week of editing post event as well. Leave it to the pros.

 

[Only RF]

I took flash course with a local outfit and this fellow became my flash guru.

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I also liked Syl Arena's teachings for the technical side. I learned how ETTL works which is pretty cool.

 

[David Stallard]

Have done a few family / friends weddings over the years, 'vowed' I would never do another, unbelievably stressful (you only get one chance to catch 'that look / expression' you can't retake it or set it up later.)

Year before last I lost a close work colleague - his daughter was due to get married and after the funeral they had little funds left so I did it as a favour to his wife and daughter - explained before hand that I was NOT a people person but I would do my very best for them. My wife and I gave them nearly a 1000 processed photo's which they absolutely loved and they insisted on paying us £500 for (we donated it to my late friends favourite charity).

If you explain to them that this is not your thing and they understand that - do it to the best of your ability and don't doubt yourself. Just my opinion ;-)

 

[Bear]

Have a good friend who enjoys my storm photography and other general shots.

Said hey mate you wouldnt like to take some outdoor wedding photos for us would you?

I said nah not that good its your special day well second time actually.

Divorced lost the shirt of his back etc etc no much coin at moment.
He said we cant really afford a proper photographer, doesnt have to be expert quality only 20 people in attendance.

So hes gonna try a few others and get back to me.

Or should i help a mate out and just do best i can.
R6ii 70/200 2.8 L 24/70 2.8 L no flash but maybe not needed as early afternoon, probably got good enough gear to fluke a few good ones but not the experience

As an amateur I usually stick with landscape or local wildlife. People, not so much. With that said, I just finished some pre-graduation photos for a friend/co-worker. With her daughter and her 4-friends in tow, we hit their elementary school, their middle school and their high school. 665 photos later and a lot of fun taking those photos, mom and young ladies were happy with the photos and the over all shoot. Would I shoot a wedding for a friend? Not a chance! Nothing like pissing off a new bride on her special day. Would I hesitate with another graduation type shoot or something similar? Nope! I learned a lot from this photo shoot I know where I would improve on future attempts. All involved had fun.